Your personal dating concierge

Better dates.
Less effort.

Your personal dating concierge for reservations, flowers, gifts, experiences, and everything in between.

Now in the Bay AreaMembers onlyNot a dating app
A quiet dinner table set for two, candlelit
Friday, 7:45 pmTable for two

How it works

You handle the relationship. We handle the logistics.

01

Tell us what you need

Second date Friday. Somewhere romantic in SF, but not too serious.
02

We plan it

Your concierge finds the right places, coordinates the details, and sends you a plan.

03

You approve

One tap and DateWell handles the logistics.

04

Enjoy the date

You focus on the person. We’ll handle everything else.

DateWellYour concierge
DW
Second date Friday. She lives in Noe Valley, vegetarian. Somewhere romantic but not too serious.
DWDateWell
Absolutely. I have a few ideas. Give me a moment.
DWDateWell
Here’s the evening I’d suggest. Everything is within a short walk, and the kitchen at Cotogna does a beautiful vegetarian tasting.
Friday, September 18

An evening in North Beach

6:30 pm
Cocktails · Bar SprezzaturaAperitivo, quiet corner table
7:45 pm
Dinner · CotognaVegetarian tasting, window two-top
9:45 pm
Walk to City Lights + optional nightcapTosca is holding a booth
Estimated evening$275
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Tell us what you need

The concierge

It feels like texting someone who already knows the city.

Say what you want in your own words. Your concierge replies with a real plan: the places, the times, the reservation, the flowers on the table if you’d like them there. Approve it once and it’s handled.

  • Every recommendation is curated for dates, not scraped from a list.
  • Plans arrive as itineraries you can approve, tweak, or replan in a sentence.
  • Confirmations, addresses and timing live in one place on the night.

What DateWell handles

Dinner is just the beginning.

From finding the right restaurant to remembering the flowers she mentioned three months ago, DateWell handles the details that make dating feel thoughtful.

Plan

Date planning

A first date that isn’t a bar. A third date that isn’t dinner. Evenings shaped around the two of you.

Book

Reservations

The table that’s hard to get, at the time you actually want, with the kitchen briefed on what matters.

Send

Flowers

Her favourites, from the right florist, at her door before she’s awake.

Find

Gifts

Something she’ll keep. Sourced, wrapped and delivered with a card in your words.

Mark

Special occasions

Birthdays, anniversaries and the dates that only the two of you know about.

Do

Experiences

A sail under the bridge. A pottery wheel. A symphony box. The things you mean to do and never book.

Go

Weekend escapes

Napa, Big Sur, Sonoma. The car, the room, the tastings and the dinner, arranged.

Remember

Thoughtful reminders

A quiet note two weeks before it matters, with a plan already half made.

Relationship memory

We remember the details.

Favorite flowers. Dietary preferences. The wine she loved. The restaurant you already visited. Her birthday. The places you’ve been meaning to try.

DateWell quietly remembers what matters so every plan becomes more personal.

  • Ranunculus, never rosesFlowers
  • Pescatarian, loves oystersFood
  • The dry Riesling at SorellaWine
  • Already been to ZuniPlaces
  • Wants to see the Legion of HonorSomeday
  • Birthday, September 24Occasion

First market

San Francisco
and the Bay Area

The Golden Gate Bridge from the Marin Headlands
Marina · North Beach · Hayes Valley · Mission · Presidio

Our recommendations aren’t a “best restaurants” list. Every place is written up for dates: how romantic the room is, whether you can hear each other, how hard the table is to get, what to order, and where to walk afterwards.

We know which bars are worth the wait, which kitchens will handle a dietary note gracefully, and which florist will deliver before she wakes up. Evenings in the city; weekends in Marin, Napa and Sonoma, arranged end to end.

San FranciscoEast BayMarinNapa ValleySonomaMore markets soon

Membership

One membership. Every date handled.

DateWell Concierge

$199/ month

A private concierge for your dating life. Unlimited requests, one thread, one person who remembers everything.

Become a member

What’s included

  • Unlimited concierge requests, seven days a week
  • Date planning, reservations, flowers, gifts and itineraries handled for you
  • Priority access to hard-to-book tables
  • Occasion reminders for the people you’re seeing
  • Relationship memory that makes every plan more personal
  • Weekend escapes and experiences, arranged end to end

Third-party purchases such as restaurants, flowers, gifts, tickets, hotels and transportation are separate and billed at cost. Cancel any time.

Dating takes effort.
The logistics don’t have to.

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